You are stronger than you think

Life at times can seem unfair, but remember  that you are a survivor of the unfairness of life. You are stronger than you think, and you are capable of achieving more than you believe.

Make the most of a new day.

If you are in need of help and support, please email me and let’s arrange for a chat or I can send you a copy of my ebook – Crown of Smiles – inspirational practial book with tips on how you too can wake up and find a reason to smile each day.


I cried myself to sleep

So much had been going on in my life, I felt really trapped by my circumstances  and felt their was no way of getting out of the cycle of f having a work contract, then when it finished I felt myself struggling to make ends meet and look after my children  as we seemed to be living a “Just about managing life” ‘

I felt disappointed that even though I have worked all my life I had not many material possessions to show for it. I watched with envy as I saw people my own age living the live of their dreams with a wonderful family and  always on holidays and really living their life to the maximum.

I cried myself to sleep and that night I dreamt I was a little bird trapped in a cage and suddenly I saw a huge hand open the cage door and a voice saying – your are free, fly away and soar like an eagle. All of a sudden I was transformed into an eagle and I could feel myself flying higher and higher with a golden box in my beak with the words “Set free”

When I woke up, I though about the dream and remembered I had the same dream when I was going through my divorce,  I got up with a new energy and passion to take action to turn my situation around.

Things I did to help me

  1. I started to develop the abundance mindset believing my current situation was temporary
  2. Searching on Google for stories of people who had been inmy same siutaion and things they did to come out of it.
  3. I wrote down the things I wanted to achieve  and chose to have faith despite the facts of my current situation
  4. I created a vision board to bring my visions of my life into reality and every day I would spend time looking at this.
  5. I created positive affirmations relating to the things I wanted to happen and  I repeated every day

It may not feel like you will smile again…..

Every one of us has bad days, and every one of us has good days. Both states pass and  both come again, in different ways. What makes the  diffrence in the way we react to our bad days is our attitude,

It may not feel like you will smile again, but never loose hope.

Life is a balance of light and dark, bad times and good times. Happiness comes not from being attached to the good days and dreading the bad days, but by accepting that both are a part of life. When you accept this, you are able to live from a more balanced perspective, with equanimity, enjoying the good times, learning from the hard times, and appreciating that both have an important role.

If you need help to regain your smile why not email me to buy a copy of my popular self help book – Crown of Smiles. £4.99 which has tips on how I too recovered from unhappiness, sadness, depression and low self esteem.

Why I need to get a happy bus #HappyBuskent

My dream is get the Happy Bus Kent – so that my self and team happy could go around different places in kent, delivering our happiness and wellbeing activties to help people feel good and take care of their mental wellbeing.
Our activities will inclue using arts and craft, drummming, singing,dancing and laughter yoga.
We will also deliver little bags of happiness to cheer up people who are nominated.
We also aim to collaborate with existing organisations in the area of happiness, and mental wellbeing so that we can sign post people to services available.
The happy bus will also do outreach to isolated communities as wel as taking part in major events aroumd kent where we will have our bus, and gazibo so that people can come and find out about our services as well as engage in some of the activities we put on.

I was so happy when  Jackie Lloyd who is my mentor bought  me a small toy bus which really helps me to see that my dream can true  very soon.  So if you know how I can do this, please feel free to contact me   genny @   confidentqueen. co. uk

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Each day is a precious opportunity to live well.

Each day is a precious opportunity to live well.
To live life with purpose and power.
To be a creator instead of a victim.

To listen to the voice of your story that calls you ever forwards into new adventures and new territory.


Each day we have a choice to reconnect. To remember who we are and what we wish to create with our precious lifetime.

How to start you day full of enthusiasm and passion

Sometimes, in life, we get tired of doing certain things especiallly when we feel we are being taking for granted or if we feel our efforts are not getting us the results we expect. This is all ok and part of life.

How to regain your get up and go for life:-

It all starts with what we tell ourselves.

This morning I woke up and my thoughts where to call in to work sick and just stay in bed. After a few minutes  in bed, I somehow heard my inner voice saying to me ,  “Staying at home moaning about my life is not an option. I am grateful for where I ‘m at, excited about where I am going. ”

I got up, made myself a hot drink of water and lemon to refresh me.

I then sat down to write this short blog  to share with you.

So, I encourage you to act today and takea small step towards changing something you are not happy with in your life.

If you  need help do email me for us to organised a free skype call and lets see  how i can encourage you to be the best version of yourself so that you too can wake up each day with a positive outlook of life, full with enthusiasm and passion.



A laugh from me to you

Is the pace and stress of life getting you down? Feeling like there isn’t time left in the day to get all of the things on your to-do list done? You are not alone! Take a moment,  Laugh

Laughing helps in everything. It even helps in tediously dry and boring moments.

If you need any hellp to enjoy everyday with a laugh do email me for a free skype call –

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